NATALIE BOONSTRA-LILLY, Therapy Intern

In therapy, I often help people grow in self-compassion and forgiveness, and share practical tools that help them change discouraging thought patterns into much more supportive ones. I seek to provide empathetic support as my clients experience emotional healing and discover their inherent value.

I certainly understand how it feels to ache for emotional and spiritual healing. At ten years old, I was diagnosed with a condition called Madelung's Deformity, an extremely rare congenital disorder that affects the shape and size of both of my arms. To “be stuck” with something that can make me feel less acceptable caused years of emotional pain, dissatisfaction with myself, and even shame. Then one day I re-read in Psalm 139:14, "I will praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made." It hit me like it never had before.  This stunning verse served as the catalyst for helping me learn to change how I think about myself, and the eventual foundation for my ministry.  Further, that verse, plus the help of those who have loved me so well, has given me a desire to help others find the freedom and peace I now enjoy more and more. 

My book, "Insecure: My Story," provides a closer look at this journey and can be found on Amazon and at the Adventist Book Center. I am also a public speaker and often share my story at churches and schools across the country, and at women’s retreats.  I hope that in some way my story, and our work together, will encourage you that emotional healing is possible with counseling and a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. 

If you are interested in finding out more, check out my Instagram ministry here.

"I’ve known Natalie for several years and have always been impressed by her genuine compassion and ability to connect with people in a meaningful way. She has a natural warmth that helps others feel comfortable, heard, and supported. Natalie is thoughtful, faith-centered, and brings wisdom and empathy into her conversations. She’s also a person of strong character and integrity, which shows in how she cares for others. I’m confident she will provide caring and encouraging support to those she counsels, and I’m happy to recommend her."

Becky Carpenter, Communication Director at the Carolina Conference.

"I am pleased to offer my wholehearted endorsement of Natalie, as I have had the privilege of serving as both her professor and clinical supervisor. I have seen her in action with clients and I can confidently speak to the depth, integrity, and effectiveness she brings to the therapeutic relationship. Her work consistently helps clients develop self-compassion, confidence, and insight, laying a foundation for genuine and lasting healing. Natalie approaches counseling with humility, professionalism, and a clear sense of calling; clients feel deeply seen, respected, and supported in her presence.​"

Tami Navalon, PhD, LPC-MHSP, ACS Southern Adventist University

​"Natalie shared a powerful message at our recent women's retreat. She had a beautiful way of connecting with those in attendance. She drew powerfully on her own story to help us be more compassionate with ourselves. I am highly confident that Natalie will provide excellent, godly care to those she sees in her counseling role. I am truly glad to recommend her.​"

Beth Grissom, Women's Ministry Director at the Carolina Conference.